I really love the energy behind the term “Un-Fuckwithable.” ✨️
(At least my interpretation of it)
Just like any other skill or trait, it must be cultivated over time. You are not just unfuckwithable overnight it is something you must evolve into. And to do so, you must trust yourself. In order to trust yourself, you must first be impeccable with your word to yourself. This means following through with the things you say you’re going to do.
You do this by first becoming someone YOU can rely on to follow through.
why it is so hard to believe in yourself
People’s emotions, feelings, and mindsets are often easily shifted by circumstance or by opinion of others. This is because we do not have a solid foundation of the self to stand on.
If we do not believe in ourselves- any given wind can blow us any which way. The projections or opinions of others can easily shift our mood or direction. Any inconvenience effortlessly throws us off course. Many times “stopping us in our tracks” & creating a self-reinforced loop. “See the world says I am a failure, I may as well give up now.” And this adds to our self-deprecating track record which further sustains the loop.
When we have faith in who we are, our confidence and validation come from the proof we have given to ourselves over time, making the winds of opinion and projection much less likely to detour us.
In order to do this we must be willing to be honest with ourselves in a way that is often uncomfortable. We must be willing to look at our behaviors, patterns, environment & belief systems with a raw, objective eye, and an open mind & open heart.
✨️ Standing in “unfuckwithable” energy takes practice, integrity, and accountability. You will radiate a different type of confidence when you embody this level of truth.✨️
getting to root of our patterns is crucial to creating an unfuckwithable aura. articles with insights & places to begin- linked below
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