The Inner Reign

Category: Relationships

• I.E.C. Informed Behavior Reflections Relationships

  

  I spent a week watching my grandfather die. Somehow, a dinner with my father hurt more.

  Inner Thoughts | The Inner Reign I’ve always been terrified of having children.I’m 35 years old, and for most of my adult life, the thought of becoming a mother has brought up more fear than excitement. Which is interesting, because there’s also a part of me that thinks having a…

  October 12, 2026
• I.E.C. Informed Behavior Relationships

  When Healthy Love Gives You The Ick: Learning to Discern Without Living on Defense

  The content explores the complexities of emotional healing and discernment. It emphasizes how protective mechanisms from past trauma can lead to mistrust and hypervigilance in relationships, making healthy connections feel uncomfortable. The key lies in learning to differentiate between instinctual reactions and true threats, fostering growth through self-awareness and patience.

  September 1, 2026
• Reflections Relationships

  Fear of Abandonment or fear of being chosen?

  By Lacey NelsonFounder of The Inner Reign Integration System| Creator of IECIB When the abandonment wound becomes more integrated, sometimes another layer reveals itself- the fear of being chosen fully. Oddly enough for some even scarier than the abandonment dread because being fully chosen means showing up fully with all…

  August 17, 2026
• I.E.C. Informed Behavior Relationships

  Why we ignore intuition until it hurts

  By Lacey NelsonFounder of The Inner Reign Integration System| Creator of IECIB Nervous System Conditioning, Trauma Patterns, and the Loss of Inner Trust Many of us do not ignore our intuition intentionally. We ignore it because survival patterns, attachment wounds & nervous system conditioning taught us to distrust ourselves in…

  July 17, 2026
• I.E.C. Informed Behavior Relationships

  Why we repeat relational patterns (even when we know better)

  By Lacey NelsonFounder of The Inner Reign Integration System| Creator of IECIB I didn’t repeat relational patterns because I was flawed or dumb. I repeated them because I didn’t know what I was looking at. And more than that- I didn’t understand that what I was feeling was information. This…

  May 8, 2026